Recently, something triggered me to think of who will be present at my funeral.
haha. funerals. a topic that most people, especially those in the older generation, will want to avoid.
But the people present are those that walked with you till the very end. That is, if you die of age lar.

Family. is a must.
preferably with grandkids ya. hahhaha. or if I have a good life - great grandkids =P
and friends.

But.. which friends?
I can name a few offhand now - those whom I really considered as close friends.
But that is now. who knows what will happen in the next 50 yrs?
I might lose contact with them, though it's kinda scary to think of the possibility now.
Imagine your current bestiest friend - alive and doesnt even know that you've passed away.

THAT seems tragic.
But possible.
*shudders*

Think [Sex and the City]. Carrie, Samantha (fav! <3), Miranda and Charlotte might be super "gum" now, but can one safely say that their friendships will not fall out in the next, say, 20 yrs? that they will be friends FOREVER?

Forever is hard work.
Especially when you are at different locations and have totally different lives, schedules and commitments.
Yet it's not impossible. We just have to maintain and treasure the friendships that we have with each and every of our friend. yeaaa. jia you.



Which of the friends you have now can really walk to the end of life with you?


p.s: abv is smth bo liao that I thought of while digging my nose. pardon me if it sounds bo liao heh heh.